To bail or not to bail?



   The sunk cost fallacy is simply continued financing of a bad deal. Payments and investments that can never be recovered, but are still being fed and watered by your money and time. Sounds stupid? Not so much. Being the wonderful creatures we are, people are extremely prone to loss aversion because we tend to also emotionally invest in all our dealings. We think we are making logical choices but really, how clear is your vision in that one area?
   Some hide behind God.Waiting on a miracle they say. Is God really behind the vague answers you give as your excuses and the denial in which you're living in?  Most of the time people stick to their sinking ships to avoid admitting their lapse in judgement to their personal audience. Understandable really, because no one likes looking foolish but it means you're not taking into account what not getting out looks like.


 This applies to friendships and romantic relationships. Sticking to friends you've either outgrown or have outgrown you. Staying in relationships that don't work because you want to have something to show for it at the end of the day.Why don't we just admit a relationship has outlived its purpose and hold on to the memories of the good times before they are destroyed by bad sentiments?
   Losing something permanently hurts; stomach twisting,gut wrenching pain. The urge to avoid this pain sometimes leads to erratic behaviour that can only be classified as madness . Why stay in abusive relationships? Wear uncomfortable shoes you can't sell?Or finish up expensive food you find disgusting? The price has already been paid,move on. Sometimes its clear what the sunk costs in our lives are and other times it's not easy to see what is lost forever.Our ability to stay on track and keep pressing on is noble and admirable. We however also have the ability to reflect on our past and project our choices into the future. Save your future self bigger pain and loss by accepting the pain of truth and loss now.



































Its 2018 and the people have decided that Infidelity is new and must be rehashed into nothingness. A man started the thenakedkings hashtag because he opened his mailbox to women wanting to confess their cheating. Women retaliating against their husbands infidelity, women discovering they married for the wrong reasons and my favourite group women who have found out that with money and opportunity comes great responsibilities that they are shirking.


Its amusing how personal people take stories of Women’s infidelity, like a grave insult to their family honour even when they do not know the people involved. People seem to believe that women come with a better inbuilt moral software at birth and its amazing that its an idea so prevalent because a second’s glace at that idea has it disintegrating. Women have been corralled in the past by Religion, Society and Disenfranchisement. These barriers are been broken down and the feminine veneer of  moral superiority is melting away. We haven’t reached a state of equal moral latitude but we’ll get there soon enough. At the bottomline we find that both genders are exact mirrors of each other, for better and worse. Its good argument for feminism ,for those ones who reaching for the goodness in their hearts is pointless.
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